Going to College and Staying Healthy: Sexual Health

Going to College and Staying Healthy:
Sexual Health

What do I need to know if I'm sexually active or if I'm thinking about becoming sexually active?

During college, you may make lots of decisions about your sexuality and sexual activity. Some sexuality issues that teens make decisions about are the gender of partners, the type of contraception, and the intensity of the relationships. It is important to know your personal views on having sex before becoming sexually active.

Before you decide to have a sexual relationship, talk to your partner about whether this is the right decision for both of you. Ask about his or her sexual history, including if he or she has been exposed to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Discuss whether you or your partner will be sexually involved with other people. Remember, the risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease or a virus that can cause cancer or AIDS is increased if either of you is having sexual intercourse with other people. The more partners, the greater the risk. Some young men and women both get tested for STD’s before having a sexual relationship. If you do decide to have sex, the best way to avoid getting any sexually transmitted diseases is to have sex with only one person that has never been exposed to a sexually transmitted disease. You should use a latex condom every time you have sex, from start to finish.

Many young men and women do not feel ready for a sexual relationship. Also, the only way to absolutely prevent getting a sexually transmitted disease is to not have sex. You may decide that it is not the right time for you to have a sexual relationship, and this is a legitimate decision.

College is a time when many young people are trying to figure out their sexual orientation. You may feel comfortable sorting this out on your own, but if you wish to talk with someone, there are counselors available at your Student Health Service. Many colleges also have support groups for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender students.

Check out these other College Health Guides:

Knowing About My Health Before I Go to College

Health Services and Health Care Providers

Staying Healthy at College

Some Common Health Problems at College

Mental Health

Eating Disorders

Alcohol and Drugs

Violence/Abuse in Relationships

Resources: Hotlines/Websites/Books

Written by the CYWH and YMH Staff

Updated 2/5/2008