Making Healthy Sexual Decisions:
Getting Advice & Questions to Ask
Whom can I talk to about sex?
If you have questions about sex, whether or not you're thinking about having a sexual relationship you should talk to your parent(s)/guardian(s), a trusted adult such as a school counselor, someone from your religious center/youth group, or your healthcare provider. It's a good idea to get information and discuss concerns so that you can make healthy decisions.
How do I find a health care provider to discuss birth control and STI protection?
Many young men can talk to their moms, dads, or guardians about these issues, while others need confidential services. You can talk to your primary care provider about birth control or STI protection. You also have the option of talking to a health care provider (HCP) at a student health center or school clinic. You should feel comfortable with your HCP, since it is important to share personal information and any health problems with her/him. You need to find a provider who will listen to your concerns, answer your questions, and take the time to explain things clearly to you.
Make sure you know how to receive confidential, non-judgmental services when talking about your sexual choices and health.
Practice these questions to ask:
- Will the bill be sent to my house?
- What if I want to be tested for STI's such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, or HIV?
- What if I find out that I have an STI?
- If I'm covered by my parents' insurance, will they find out about examinations and tests (such as test for STI's) that are done on me?
- What if my partner is pregnant?
- Is there any information that you are required to tell my parents/guardians?
- What happens if I have a big problem and need help telling my parents/guardians?
- What should I know about emergency contraception that is available for females?
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Updated: 1/19/2011
